{"id":313164,"date":"2026-07-06T07:10:00","date_gmt":"2026-07-06T11:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/electricliterature.com\/?p=313164"},"modified":"2026-07-02T13:39:31","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T17:39:31","slug":"the-great-wherever-by-shannon-sanders","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/electricliterature.com\/the-great-wherever-by-shannon-sanders\/","title":{"rendered":"This Family&#8217;s Favorite Holiday Game Is Resource Control"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">An excerpt from <em>The Great Wherever<\/em> by Shannon Sanders<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For Christmas dinner, Boyd\u2019s mother Brigid had suggested a casual (\u201c<em>very<\/em> casual\u201d) potluck in the kitchen of the Elledge home. Small and easy, compared to some sort of extended-\u00adfamily do. \u201cNo one will have to spend the week beforehand cleaning for company or the whole holiday cooking,\u201d she\u2019d said; and, put that way, it made more sense than the alternative. For Aubrey\u2019s maternal relatives, with whom she and Boyd had spent the previous Christmas, hosting a holiday was an existentially horrific affair, with so much stressed-\u00adout performative bullshit that went into it. For her first Christmas without her father, this would be a thousand times better. Simple food, a simple gathering, and then they\u2019d simply say goodbye. No carols, no gifts, no bullshit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey found the most complicated recipe she could for miso-braised mushrooms and then almost killed herself sourcing king oysters and enoki on Christmas Eve, visiting six different grocery stores on foot. Boyd had volunteered to bring the drinks\u2014\u00adgood whiskey and excellent wine, plus the usual single can of Mahaffey\u2019s Red Field per the family tradition\u2014\u00adand picked them up from the liquor store next door to his office building.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The morning of, Aubrey woke up early at her apartment and prepped the mushrooms, scoring the elastic flesh of the king oysters and then immersing the lot of them in a marinade of miso, garlic, and sesame oil. Then, as she waited for Boyd to pick her up, she tried on twenty outfits and hated every last one. Under Brigid\u2019s leadership, the approach Boyd\u2019s family took to things like major holidays was in turns irreverent and achingly earnest, and Aubrey had never been able to correctly predict which it would be. If she wore a nice dress handed down from her sister, she\u2019d find Boyd and his parents in cotton jammies, cornily coordinating. If she wore the snowman cardigan she\u2019d bought for her office\u2019s ugly-\u00adsweater party, surely Brigid would be in a fucking evening gown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the eleventh hour she settled on a red turtleneck and her nice jeans. She consulted the full-\u00adlength mirror for every possible angle to make sure she didn\u2019t look poochy, and fretted. There, where her top met her pants, was that the beginning of\u2014\u00ad? But no, of course not. But was it? She stood frozen for too long, staring, wondering whether it might help to make herself throw up, but ultimately she ran out of time: Boyd texted to say he was pulling up outside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Downstairs, her happiness at the sight of him in his white Solterra was visceral. She stood at the driver\u2019s side window until he rolled it down. \u201cHi,\u201d she said, and tried to kiss his mouth, catching instead the strawberry-\u00adblond stubble on his cheek. He\u2019d worn flannel pajama pants and a ribbed henley top.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou\u2019re not cold?\u201d he said, and unlocked the doors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the car, she didn\u2019t mention the ordeal with her clothes, because they had an agreement. The first positive test had been Friday; they\u2019d confirmed with another on Saturday, kicking off a weekend of panic, and then Boyd had said\u2014\u00ad<em>No. Let\u2019s table this for now<\/em>. Christmas was a Monday, and they would circle back to it later in the week, after they\u2019d each had a chance to think. <em>Separately<\/em>, Boyd had emphasized. It stung but didn\u2019t surprise her, because Boyd was always that way. Fiercely private when he had something on his mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the meantime, thankfully, there were other things to talk about. \u201cDid you find the mushrooms you needed?\u201d asked Boyd, pulling out from beneath her building\u2019s crumbling portico. \u201cI saw some at the corner store but figured those probably weren\u2019t the right ones.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo, yeah, those wouldn\u2019t be, but I did find some,\u201d she said, and held up the bulging tote bag in her lap. \u201cWish me luck that these will be enough. Did you find the drinks?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He nodded his head to send her attention to the back seat of the station wagon, where there sat a paper bag, its contents clanking against one another. The necks of two wine bottles crested the top of the bag, and she saw from the labels that they were old standbys: Brigid\u2019s favorite Sancerre and her own favorite Rioja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPerfect,\u201d she said thankfully, and just as the word fell from her lips, she remembered that she wouldn\u2019t be able to drink even a sip of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThey\u2019re here!\u201d sang Brigid, who stood in the door of her beautiful house with her thin arms outstretched. She wore one of her shapeless silk dresses, her long platinum hair tucked beneath a velvet Santa hat. She gathered Boyd into a hug and pressed her face into the front of his henley.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMerry merry, Bridge,\u201d said Boyd, stroking the nape of his mother\u2019s neck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Brigid\u2019s husband, Jon, appeared behind her: well-\u00adfitted gray suit, red-\u00adand-\u00adgreen ascot, silver bells jingling at his jacket cuffs. \u201cChildren!\u201d He swerved around the embracing mother and son and folded Aubrey into his arms. \u201c<em>Bright\u2014\u00adbeautiful\u2014\u00adbeloved\u2014<\/em>children.\u201d Between each word he planted a moist kiss on Aubrey\u2019s forehead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These fucking weirdos. And yet, how warmed she was by the welcome. She reached for Boyd\u2019s hand but missed it and instead let herself be guided into the house by his parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDrinks,\u201d announced Boyd, hefting his paper bag. Aubrey clutched her mushrooms and followed him to the kitchen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here among the unholy mess of opened food packages and savory cooking smells they found Boyd\u2019s sister, Neve, a serene-\u00adlooking and apparently sober version of Neve. She was rummaging in the refrigerator when they entered but emerged with a handful of seedless purplish-black grapes. \u201c<em>Hi<\/em>, guys! Good God, <em>taste<\/em> these,\u201d she chirped, offering them the grapes from her hand. She looked good, wearing black sweats with expensive stitching, her rust-\u00adcolored hair tamed into a thick, high ponytail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boyd took a grape and chewed it as he slid the Red Field into the crisper, the Sancerre into the Vinotemp. The Rioja and whiskey he placed on the countertop. \u201cShe makes an appearance at two family holidays in a row! Glad you made it, Nevvie. Guess Psycho Thanksgiving really is behind us.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThat was last year, this is this year. It\u2019s all fine.\u201d Neve wrapped an arm around Aubrey\u2019s shoulders and held a grape to her face. \u201cHave. I\u2019m serious. They\u2019re so good.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey let Boyd\u2019s sister slip the grape into her mouth. It was sweet but not remarkably so. On second thought, was it possible Neve was rolling?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAll right, beautiful children,\u201d said Brigid, appearing in the kitchen doorway. \u201cIf you aren\u2019t actively cooking\u2014\u00adout. Go play Settlers of Catan with Jon in the living room. I\u2019ve sworn it off and he\u2019s in withdrawal. Are these the mushrooms?\u201d She pointed to the Tupperware container in Aubrey\u2019s hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes! They\u2019re completely prepped, I just need to flash-\u00adfry them. It\u2019ll only take a couple minutes at the very end and then I can serve them with everything else.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSo nothing to do right now? Then off with you\u2014\u00adCatan!\u201d Brigid made a gentle swatting motion with her hand and then installed herself in front of a countertop to toss the contents of an enormous wooden salad bowl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey gazed wistfully at the fragrant pile of kale and endives and radicchio and sliced radishes, which were far more appealing than the idea of board game hell. But she followed Boyd and Neve into the adjacent sitting room, where Jon sat unpacking the contents of the Settlers of Catan box, arranging the board meticulously on the teak coffee table and sprinkling the tiny wooden game pieces all around. \u201cThe rules, everyone remembers the rules, yes?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey didn\u2019t. \u201cMaybe I can just be on Boyd\u2019s team?\u201d She tucked herself beside him on one of the diminutive leather benches that stood around the table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOh, come on.\u201d Boyd shifted subtly and guided her with a firm hand to a bench of her own, then handed her the frayed instruction sheet. \u201cWe played a few weeks ago.\u201d Had they? Maybe with some of his K Street friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neve peered over Aubrey\u2019s shoulder at the instructions and sucked her teeth. \u201cI fucking <em>hate<\/em> this game,\u201d she complained. \u201cBut fine.\u201d She whipped her head to the left and locked her gaze on her brother, baring her small eyeteeth. \u201cIf I have to, then you\u2019re going down.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jon reached into the breast pocket of his suit jacket and produced a pair of drugstore reading glasses, which he settled onto the bridge of his nose. \u201cForgive me, my patient progeny, but actually <em>I\u2019ve<\/em> forgotten how to play,\u201d he said, taking the instructions from Aubrey\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote alignright\"><blockquote><p>Aubrey started sluggish and then improved as the rules came back to her, easily outplaying bewildered Jon and erratic Neve, and suddenly she was winning.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">God, how exhausting it was. But it was Boyd\u2019s favorite game, and so. They persevered through several false starts and practice turns, until finally an actual game was underway, with Boyd predictably in the lead. The object was expansion; you situated your resource-producing settlements and grew them as rapidly as possible, claiming land, avoiding the gray meeple that represented a persistent robber. Boyd was quick and intuitive with his plays, silently planning his strategy and then moving immediately each time his turn rolled around. Aubrey started sluggish and then improved as the rules came back to her, easily outplaying bewildered Jon and erratic Neve, and suddenly she was winning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat the heck,\u201d said Boyd during one of Aubrey\u2019s turns. \u201cNo. A die roll that goes off the table doesn\u2019t fucking count.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWho says?\u201d Neve frowned at her brother and linked an arm through Aubrey\u2019s in a random show of solidarity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jon consulted the instructions. \u201cI don\u2019t see where\u2014\u00adthat\u2019s not in the\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOh, Jon, come on. It\u2019s not in the rules,\u201d said Neve. \u201cHe\u2019s making it up.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>Guys<\/em>. This is important,\u201d said Boyd. \u201cI <em>need<\/em> her to not get that lumber.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2019ll roll again,\u201d said Aubrey over Neve\u2019s protest. For the second time, a five. She took the lumber she was due.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMotherfu\u2014\u00ad\u201d Boyd squeezed the bridge of his nose with his thumb and forefinger. \u201cFine. Lumber, you got it. Anybody, drinks?\u201d He stood and shoved his hands in his deep flannel pockets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Rioja<\/em>, Aubrey was about to say, and then stopped herself. She caught Boyd\u2019s eye and shook her head subtly. Jon requested one of his fancy wines; Neve, a vodka and La Croix.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boyd disappeared into the kitchen as Jon and Neve went back to contemplating their next moves, and Aubrey sat back in her chair, inventorying. She had a minor headache that had begun with the morning\u2019s outfit frenzy, most probably because she\u2019d skipped her usual coffee. And maybe her nerve endings felt too alert, like exposed live wires. But she felt normal otherwise, no nausea, none of the unexplainable fatigue or soreness that Bellamy had complained about through two first trimesters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was too early for all that, anyway. The tests she\u2019d taken had been the ones that promised the earliest results possible; her period wasn\u2019t even due for another day. Her body might not have entirely gotten the message yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boyd, diligent researcher that he was, had looked into the relevant information on timing. It was the twenty-\u00adfirst century, at least for the moment, and they lived on the border of a blue district and a blue state. Whatever they decided to do, he\u2019d told her, they had at least a couple of weeks to figure it out, though of course <em>clarity sooner would be great. Decide what to do and then full steam ahead.<\/em> That was how he\u2019d put it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But Aubrey was thirty-\u00adtwo. Two years older than Bellamy had been when she\u2019d become a mother. People grew up, they got married, they had children and put on family dinners, serving salads assembled from homegrown greens. Or they did it in a different order, if they were less beholden to the old conventions. Aubrey\u2019s father had been dead nearly a year, the hot coals of his judgments cooling in her mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was this other part, too. Neve sat with her head ducked over the game board, her smooth, vibrant hair hanging dangerously close to a few of Aubrey\u2019s settlements, and jabbered to her father about her stupid strategy that wasn\u2019t going to work. Neve had never held anything beyond a few fucked-\u00adup temp jobs, yet she could afford things like K\u00e9rastase conditioner and $450 sweatsuits from brands Aubrey had never heard of. She would never want for anything, which of course meant neither would Boyd, nor would any child of his.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boyd reappeared in the doorway bearing a vintage tray loaded with drinks, Catan-\u00adrelated annoyance still written all over his face. He handed a full wineglass to Jon, a tinted highball to Neve, and a glass of water to Aubrey, then plopped back onto his seat with his little glass of whiskey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOh, it\u2019s Christmas,\u201d said Jon, gesturing with disapproval toward Aubrey\u2019s water. \u201cHave anything. Have some of this.\u201d He held out his own glass of red wine. Its silky scent tugged at Aubrey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But no. \u201cI have to work tomorrow,\u201d she said, which was indeed true. On the day after a holiday, the ACK halls would be relatively empty, haunted only by the partners with the most dismal work-\u00adlife balances, who wouldn\u2019t bother her. So she\u2019d chosen to preserve her vacation days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMy turn,\u201d said Boyd, and rolled the dice. An eleven, allowing him to gather up lumber and grain and ore, which he promptly used to build a city. The move didn\u2019t quite steal Aubrey\u2019s lead but did threaten it; his fortunes had turned, and the next roll would make all the difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey held up her palm, offering him a high five, but instead he pumped his fist into the air and took a long drink from his glass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cCutthroat,\u201d murmured Jon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI don\u2019t know, Jon,\u201d said Neve, \u201cbut I really feel like you and I still have a chance.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou do,\u201d said Boyd, his voice husky in the way it always became after a drink. \u201cOf course you do, you always do.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey rolled a seven, the magic number. She considered where to place the little gray meeple that was the robber, that resource-siphoning thief of joy. Whether to handicap Neve further or seal Jon\u2019s last-\u00adplace fate, or whether to stave off Boyd for what would likely be the last round of turns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI dare you,\u201d said Boyd, watching the robber dangle from Aubrey\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Was that playfulness in his tone, after he\u2019d been so strange throughout the entire game? With hope in her heart and a little flourish of the wrist, she set the robber on Boyd\u2019s highest-\u00adyielding brick hex. As she did so, she remembered that he was right, they <em>had<\/em> played this stupid fucking game before, only a couple of weeks earlier, with a result similar to this one, a late upset in her favor. It had tickled Boyd to watch her win that way, still mildly confused about the rules but managing lucky rolls and decent plays. <em>I guess I win<\/em>, she had said then, and he\u2019d leapt over the board, over their laughing friends, and smothered her face with exaggerated kisses. \u201cSorry,\u201d she said now, sweetly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boyd lowered his face into his hands and exhaled gutturally. Aubrey stroked his elbow; he jerked it away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSorest of sore losers,\u201d said Neve. \u201cSo embarrassing, this one.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boyd raised his face; it was damp and colorful, crimson splotches staining his neck and cheeks. \u201cFuck it. Give.\u201d Aubrey dropped the dice into his hand, and he whipped them across the table. Not the retaliatory seven he hoped for but a three that effectively lost him the game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jon and Boyd and Neve wanted a rematch, but Aubrey knew better. As Boyd swept a hand across the array of hexes, gathering up the multicolored cities and settlements and roads, she got to her feet, mumbling about mushrooms, and went to the kitchen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Delibes\u2019s \u201cFlower Duet\u201d drifted languidly from invisible speakers flanking the Swedish range cooker, which was now a site of chaos: overcrowded pans, brown spills. Brigid stood at the stove with her hands lifted in a gesture of helplessness, mismatched oven mitts. When Aubrey entered, she whirled. \u201cThank God an expert is here,\u201d she said. \u201cI just <em>stink<\/em> at this. Grab something, would you please?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey squeezed in beside Brigid and turned off the heat on the mashed potatoes, which were already burning at the edges. She wasn\u2019t a particularly passionate cook, but just about anyone in the world could have outdone Brigid, as she\u2019d learned soon after meeting Boyd. The simplest things had impressed him: well-\u00adseasoned baked chicken, turkey burgers, anything involving rice. Brigid maintained her birdlike physique through culinary asceticism. She could make a perfect salad, but that was the end of her repertoire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But she was a loving mother, and so here on the stove were attempts at her children\u2019s favorite foods. \u201cOkay, good,\u201d said Brigid, gesturing to the mashed potatoes, a favorite of Boyd\u2019s. \u201cThat has butter in it already; you only need to put it into . . . that empty dish right there. The vegan stuff for Neve is over here; I\u2019ll handle it. Once you move those potatoes, you can start on your mushrooms\u2014\u00adyou said they wouldn\u2019t take long?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey began scooping. \u201cNope. The potatoes look so good!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A lie, the potatoes had all but glued themselves to the sides of the Le Creuset, but Brigid\u2019s thankful smile was a balm after that round of Catan. \u201cYou\u2019re sweet. Also, just water? <em>Please<\/em> have wine; we\u2019ve already got three bottles open and we can open others, if you want. White, orange, red?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey\u2019s stomach twisted. \u201cMaybe in a few minutes,\u201d she said. She set the dish of mashed potatoes aside and found a clean pan. \u201cOkay, mushrooms.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Brigid shucked her mitts and took a drink from her own wineglass, then raised it toward Aubrey\u2019s face, tipping it by a taunting fifteen degrees. \u201cTry! Sancerre. I\u2019m set on converting you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2014\u00ad\u201d Aubrey scraped her memory for the excuse she\u2019d given Jon. \u201cI\u2019m working a full day tomorrow, I have to\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOh, since <em>when<\/em> does that mean no wine?\u201d But Brigid lowered her glass and returned to her side of the range. \u201cOkay, Neve\u2019s nut loaf is done, I think. Though\u2014\u00adbetween us\u2014\u00adhow can you even tell?\u201d She grimaced, then lifted the charred brick from the oven and set it on a trivet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A confidence, if a tiny one. The warmth in Aubrey\u2019s core spread to her limbs. When they\u2019d first gotten serious, Boyd had said she should feel no pressure to ingratiate herself with his parents; he\u2019d been, actually, a little befuddled that she would think she needed to. <em>Brigid doesn\u2019t care about that stuff<\/em>, he\u2019d said, watching Aubrey toil over a thank-\u00adyou note after her first birthday gift from his mother. But everything in her upbringing told her otherwise. Bellamy had had her hair freshly relaxed and pin-\u00adcurled before her first time meeting the people who would become her in-\u00adlaws, after all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou\u2019re sure about the wine,\u201d Brigid pressed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMaybe when I have my hands free,\u201d offered Aubrey. She drizzled sesame oil into the pan and fiddled with the burner temperature. Then she searched the storm on the countertops, carefully moving things aside until she found her Tupperware container. She opened it, and it sent forth a delectable aroma, fresh garlic and ginger and the powerful earthiness of the mushrooms themselves, which remembered their provenance even after they\u2019d been lightly battered and pressed in panko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Brigid rested her chin on Aubrey\u2019s shoulder to watch her separate the mushrooms with a fork. \u201cIncredible. Boyd always says what a good cook you are, and I see it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2019m really not,\u201d said Aubrey. She considered for a moment, then decided\u2014\u00ada confidence for a confidence\u2014\u00adand forged ahead: \u201cAnd even if I were, he doesn\u2019t care about that at all. He\u2019s not into, like, <em>Women belong in the kitchen<\/em>, or anything. He\u2019s more into egalitarianism. Sometimes I feel like I\u2019m failing some kind of feminist test by cooking for him at all, if that makes sense.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote alignleft\"><blockquote><p>Somtimes I feel like I\u2019m failing some kind of feminist test by cooking for him at all.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was quiet for a moment, long enough for Aubrey to regret the disclosure. Then Brigid said, \u201cWell, he comes by that honestly. Jon and I tried to put egalitarianism at the center of everything we taught them. When Jon first started at the university, we sat at that table\u201d\u2014\u00adshe pointed to the little dining nook at the corner of the kitchen\u2014\u00ad\u201cand, with the kids sitting right next to us, we wrote out a little internal contract. <em>During such time as Spouse 1 is employed by\u00ad blah-\u00adblah, Spouse 2 will accept primary responsibility for preparing and serving all family meals except on alternate Sundays.<\/em> We did the same thing years earlier when Boyd was on the way. I had to waddle around, enormous and sweating, and so Jon had to navigate the shops and buy the bassinets and all that. My friends\u2019 male partners always pretended not to be able to manage any of those tasks, but of course they could have.\u201d She paused, snapped her fingers, and unsheathed a baguette, then laid it on the vacant rack inside the oven. \u201cAnd then, of course, I showed the kids the contracts when they were old enough. I wanted them to understand that our division of labor had nothing to do with my being a woman or Jon\u2019s being a man; it was just that he was doing <em>that<\/em>, and so\u2014\u00adtemporarily!\u2014\u00adI would do <em>this<\/em>. And of course, fifteen years later, I\u2019m no better at doing <em>this<\/em>! Oh, well. Do you think that oil\u2019s ready?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was. Aubrey dropped in the first batch, an even mixture of chopped king oysters and whole enoki. She braced herself for the smoky, sibilant crackle; but no, she was using nice oil in a nice pan over a nice stove. The mushrooms sizzled quietly and evenly, turning golden after a minute or two. Brigid handed her a gigantic slotted spoon, which she used to transfer that batch to a plate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAnd actually,\u201d said Brigid, as Aubrey started on the next batch, \u201cspeaking of women transcending traditional expectations, I think that\u2019s one of the things Boyd values so much about <em>you<\/em>, do you know?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYeah?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cHe\u2019s always telling us how smart you are. About your legal work, and that class you teach. Teaching isn\u2019t easy! It\u2019s so much more than just knowing the material.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDefinitely! Yeah, it is.\u201d What a nice surprise this was! Boyd had never had much to say about her test-\u00adprep classes other than to question whether the money was worth giving up multiple nights per week talking herself hoarse. He\u2019d never shown any interest in the substance or mechanics of SAT prep; had never asked her, for example, how she went about helping the most stubborn learners, on whom her standard techniques and analogies didn\u2019t work. She could imagine sharing such small details with Brigid or talking pedagogy with Jon over some future family dinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIt\u2019s so clear what an impressive young woman you are. So bright and also so <em>eloquent<\/em>. Jon and I talk all the time about how well-spoken you are.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She let herself be briefly annoyed by that, <em>well-\u00adspoken<\/em>, and then pushed it out of her mind because what was the point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Brigid stood close, her bird shoulder just a millimeter from Aubrey\u2019s pan-\u00adstirring arm. \u201cSo I hope you won\u2019t mind if I offer a little advice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course. This <em>wasn\u2019t<\/em> a surprise. This was the closest Brigid had ever seemed to an auntlike figure; and in Aubrey\u2019s world, aunts, like fathers, couldn\u2019t stop themselves from giving unsolicited advice. She braced herself to hear that she should apply her <em>eloquent<\/em> brightness to law school. She tightened her core and said, \u201cHit me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou and Boyd are just the sweetest couple. 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I\u2019m sure a smart woman like you can follow <em>exactly<\/em> what I\u2019m saying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAll I mean to say is that\u2014\u00adwell, I think you ought to make your plans with the understanding that my sweet son is nowhere near ready to shop for bassinets on his own, and I take it you\u2019re juggling quite a lot yourself. You will need support. And so I suggest that you\u2014\u00adbecause it can only be you, of course\u2014\u00addecide what to do, and then\u201d\u2014\u00adBrigid turned her small hand rigid and knifed it forward, a locomotive hurtling down a track\u2014\u00ad\u201cfull steam ahead.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cement settled into Aubrey\u2019s stomach, her hands and feet. The third batch of mushrooms burbled and then hissed, but the spatula hung motionless at her side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Brigid placed a hand on her shoulder. \u201cOf course,\u201d she said, \u201cyou have a dedicated ally in me. I don\u2019t imagine you\u2019ll run into any issues, but on the off chance, I still have a few good friends who haven\u2019t retired, and one of them is a gynecologist named Tess Werner-\u00adSimson, who . . .\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aubrey forcibly powered down her ears as Brigid prattled about her long friendship with the good Dr. Werner-\u00adSimson, who worked as the medical director for the Planned Parenthood location in Northeast DC. She heard only Brigid\u2019s music, and barely. Of all things, opera, cloying and saccharine. Aubrey kept her head down and stirred her mushrooms, finding that this third batch had cooked too quickly in the left-\u00adbehind grit from the first two. When it was time to take them out, she plopped them onto a paper towel, blew on them, hard, and then shoved them a few at a time into her mouth. They were far too crispy, but otherwise perfect, meaty and savory, with just enough salt and the rich minerality of the earth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After she\u2019d swallowed, she reached into an open cabinet and pulled down a fresh stemless wineglass, which Brigid, still gabbling without cease about Dr. Werner-\u00adSimson\u2019s incredible career, filled nearly to the top with Sancerre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neve burst into the kitchen, cheeks flushed. \u201cFuck that game,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Boyd, hands in the pockets of his pajama pants: \u201cGuess who <em>didn\u2019t<\/em> win the rematch.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally, Jon, beelining for his wife. \u201cPut me out of my misery, Bridge,\u201d he said, wrapping his hulking frame desolately around her elfin one. \u201cThe kids started flogging me on the first roll and didn\u2019t let up. 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They\u2019d left the finished game spread out across the coffee table, and Aubrey could only imagine it would be left to Brigid to clean it up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her sister answered her FaceTime on the first ring. \u201cHang on,\u201d Bellamy said over the tumult of background noise, and after some fumbling she had turned the camera horizontal. Nearly a dozen faces crowded into the picture, her sister\u2019s out of focus in a corner and her small niece\u2019s in the forefront, grinning and giggling. Around them, two of Aubrey\u2019s three aunts and an assortment of cousins and in-\u00adlaws had gathered to say hello. Everyone was fancied up, full makeup, even the babies spit-\u00adshined, her niece\u2019s hair sumptuously greased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cHey, girl,\u201d said Aubrey\u2019s Aunt Lee. \u201cWho got you that turtleneck? Did I get you that? You look cute! 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